2017: The Most Eventful Year of My Life (So Far)

I’ve known—or rather, hoped—for years that 2017 would be a somewhat eventful year of my life, as it, ideally, would be the year I graduate college. And I did just that on May 13 when I graduated from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign with a Bachelor of Science in Journalism.

Going into college, I feared I wouldn’t graduate in four years, because I wasn’t sure I’d be able to take all of my required journalism classes within that time. That’s not to say there’s any shame in having to take more than four years to graduate, because there isn’t. Anyone who graduates from college—regardless of the amount of time it is done in—should be proud of doing so, because it’s difficult. But I knew I was capable of completing my degree in four years; it was just a matter of whether I’d get to take classes when I needed to. So the idea that it could potentially take me more than four years to get my Bachelor’s degree was disheartening.

But it worked out. Despite all the doubts I wouldn’t get to take my journalism classes when I needed to, I did it: I graduated in four years with not only a Bachelor’s degree but also with a minor and certificate.

Now that 2017 has come to a close, though, so many other eventful things have happened that have made 2017 one of the most exciting years of my life. In fact, so many great things have happened in 2017 that I can easily say it has been the most eventful year of my life (so far), and here’s why:

I graduated college.

So this has already been mentioned, but it was a vital moment for me, as it is for many. It also marked the end of my going to school (because, as much as I like to learn, I’m too burned out from years of school to continue a formal education)!

I was credentialed for an NCAA women’s gymnastics regional.

The second (and last) beat I covered as a sports writer for The Daily Illini was women’s gymnastics. After that, I no longer covered a beat and eventually left the paper to pursue more opportunities with my university’s official yearbook, Illio.

But I never stopped following the team. It helped having a twin sister and best friend who are gymnastics fanatics, but covering gymnastics turned me into a gymnastics fan myself. I continued going to meets mostly as a fan and a few times more as a reporter.

In March, Illinois hosted an NCAA Regional, welcoming various teams to Champaign’s State Farm Center. One of the teams selected to the Champaign Regional was UCLA: a team that included Olympic gold medalists Kyla Ross (2012) and Madison Kocian (2016) as gymnasts and Jordyn Wieber (2012) as a coach.

As a fan, I was ecstatic about the trio of Olympians coming to compete in Champaign, and, as a sports writer, I wanted nothing more than the chance to cover an event that included such accomplished athletes. So I tried to find an outlet I could cover the meet for and ended up getting credentialed for NCAA Gym News.

The regional also marked the lone NCAA postseason event I covered in person as a journalist, so it was cool to get to check multiple things off my bucket list at one event.

Not only did I cover the meet, but it also offered me the opportunity to write a really interesting feature!

The 2017 UCLA and Illinois women’s gymnastics teams had a lot of connections. Gymnasts and coaches on opposing sides reunited with former teammates, childhood friends, and previous coaches. I have had a lot of feature ideas that I never got around to executing, but I’m glad this one became a reality.

I created an award-winning yearbook (with the help of my staff, of course).

I’ve already written a blog post about my yearbook becoming an award-winning book and the journey that got me to that point, so I’ll keep this brief.

I, along with my editorial and general staff, made a 300-plus page yearbook. We started with nothing. We had to brainstorm ideas that would make the book a reality. Soon enough, those ideas weren’t simply figments of our imagination; we turned them into actual content: stories, photos, designs.

In the end, those ideas became a collection of memories bounded together into a yearbook, and I—along with my twin sister, Amanda, who was the other co-editor-in-chief—was responsible for making sure it happened. It took a lot of work, late nights, sacrificing free time, and meals in the office to make sure it not only became a reality, but to make sure it was the best product we could put out there.

It’s one of my proudest accomplishments.

I interned with the National Basketball Players Association.

When I applied for an internship with the NBPA, the NBA players’ union, I was just, as Shea Serrano likes to put it, “shooting my shot.” I didn’t really think I’d get it, but I came across it and figured it wouldn’t hurt, so why not apply?

So when I was contacted to schedule an interview, I was pleasantly surprised, especially because I had forgotten about it at that point.

I ended up being offered the internship toward the start of 2017, but I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to do the internship. I’d have to relocate to New York, which isn’t the friendliest places to live financially speaking. But, thanks to the support of my parents, I was able to accept the offer and move to New York for a summer internship.

Not only was working for the NBPA something I never thought I’d get to do, but it was also my first official internship. I have been doing unpaid journalistic work for years already, but nothing I had done up to that point was considered an official internship.

I felt super official having my own desk, NBPA email address, and phone extension, and I really enjoyed the people I worked with. Sometimes I’d get to see random NBA players and check out some of the events the union hosts. I even got to go to NBA draft media availability, which was awesome, because I got to interview a bunch of the draft prospects. Being able to say I worked for the NBPA makes me feel pretty cool and exclusive, too.

I’m so grateful I had this opportunity, for the lessons I learned, for the people I met, and that it gave me a chance to not only go to New York, but to live there, too. It was a great way to start my post-graduation life.

I lived in New York and went on (a lot of) food adventures.

Before interning for the NBPA, I had never been to New York before. So, even though I was terrified to move to a place I wasn’t familiar with all by myself, I was excited. I’d finally get to see what makes New York so great, and I had an entire summer to do so.

I did all the typical touristy stuff—like go to Central Park, Times Square (which I waked through every day for work), the Met, and the Brooklyn Bridge—but I was honestly most excited for all of the food I’d get to try.

Once I knew I’d be going to New York, I made a list of food joints (mostly ice cream places) to go to, because I just really love food. I know New York has a lot to offer, but, being an introvert, food adventures are much more exciting than going to crowded places and being a part of the nightlife.

I didn’t go to all the places on my list, but I went to most of them, hitting all the spots I wanted to go to the most. And rarely was I ever disappointed by the food.

Let the NYC dessert adventures begin! 🍦

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I think more milkshakes should come with an ice cream sandwich.

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Ube soft serve is now my favorite kind of soft serve ice cream. 😋

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Eating gelato is more fun when it’s in the shape of a flower. 🌹

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My preferred method of eating cereal. 🍧

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Brownie cheesecake: the shaved ice cream version. 😁

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I watched my first WNBA game live.

In New York, I lived near Madison Square Garden, and it cool to see it every day. But I wasn’t going to settle for simply seeing it; I wanted to actually go there to attend an event. Luckily for me, the WNBA’s season is in the summer, and New York has a team: the Liberty.

The only other times I watched WNBA basketball were on television, and, even then, I was rarely able to watch its games. So I bought tickets to the Chicago Sky-New York Liberty game in mid-July, and it did not disappoint.

I finally got to watch the Sky and see all these players I knew but wanted to become more familiar with. The Sky won, too, so, while most everyone else in the crowd was upset, I went home a winner. I know it can’t compare to what it would be like to go to the Garden for a Knicks game, but I’m grateful for what I got. Checking three things off my bucket list all at once was great, too:

I went to Broadway shows.

When I got to New York, there was only one Broadway show I planned on seeing, Bandstand. I have been a fan of one of the dancers in the ensemble, Ryan Kasprzak, since he and his brother Evan were featured on season five of So You Think You Can Dance in 2009, and I have been following both of their careers ever since.

I remember seeing on social media that Ryan was a part of a Broadway show, and I really wanted to watch him perform, so I planned on watching Bandstand. But I had no real desire to see anything else (except Hamilton, but that wasn’t going to happen).

However, my mom and twin sister, Amanda, flew to New York with me to help move me in, and so we could have a mini-vacation before I started my internship. We would be spending time with two of my titas (which means “aunts” in the Filipino language Tagalog), and I learned that we were going to watch Miss Saigon. I didn’t quite know what the show was about beforehand, but I’m really glad we did, because it was such a good show that features a bunch of talented Filipinos (like Eva Noblezada, Jon Jon Briones, Rachelle Ann Go). It also marked my first Broadway show actually on Broadyway (in New York).

As for Bandstand, I actually didn’t watch it until late July, because I knew my brother would be coming to visit me in New York. So I put it on hold in case he wanted to join me—which he did, as we were both up for watching Ryan.

I’m somewhat upset that I waited for my brother to watch Bandstand, though, because I ended up loving it.

The first time I watched it, I really enjoyed it. But then I heard it would be closing in September, and I got sad, giving me the urge to listen to the cast recording. The cast recording then made me love the show, and I wanted to watch it again before it closed. So I went again on my second-to-last Sunday in New York. I also went to Bandstand’s “Broadway in Bryant Park” performance during my lunch break one day and to its “Summer Send-Off” performance at Grand Central Terminal during another one of my lunch breaks.

As if two times wasn’t enough, I went to watch Bandstand for a third—and final—time on my last Friday in New York after I finished my last day of my internship.

My mom had planned to fly to New York to help me move back home, because I simply had too much stuff to bring back all on my own. But Amanda ended up coming with. I knew she wanted to watch Bandstand, and this would be her only opportunity to do so with the show closing, so I bought tickets to watch Bandstand with Amanda, my mom, and my tita who lives in New York.

I loved Bandstand more each time I went to see it, and I still listen to the cast recording almost every day. But the show got me really interested in Broadway, and now that I’ve learned more and have been exposed to more Broadway, I want to see all of these shows. So I wish I would’ve been less stubborn and smart enough to watch more shows than Bandstand when I was in New York. But it’s also probably for the best, because that would have gotten really expensive.

I met some cool people.

The most surprising part about being in New York was getting to meet people I never thought I’d meet.

Rafe Bartholomew: Rafe is a writer and the author of Pacific Rims: Beermen Ballin’ in Flip-Flops and the Philippines’ Unlikely Love Affair with Basketball and Two and Two: McSorley’s, My Dad, and MeHe is a former editor of Grantland (R.I.P.), which is the site that introduced me to him. This then led me to his book Pacific Rims, which has become one of my favorite books.

He did a promotional event for his newest book, Two and Two, at a Barnes and Nobles in the upper east side in mid-June, and it included a book signing. I saw him tweet about the event and asked if he’d sign a copy of Pacific Rims even though the event was for his other book, but he said he would. So that sold me on going to the event despite not knowing much about his newest book (which I will get around to reading otherwise because he’s a great writer).

But it was really cool to meet him, because he even knew who I was. We had previously interacted on Twitter—initially because I used the book as research for a sports sociology project I did my junior year of college—and he followed me on Twitter soon after. We had a brief conversation at the signing, and it was awesome getting to talk to a writer I look up to, a fellow basketball fan, and someone who has helped me learn more about basketball in the Philippines.

(Check out the CNN Philippines series that he hosted, Hoop Nation, too!)

Imani McGee-Stafford: I was fortunate enough to meet Imani, a former Chicago Sky center who has since been traded to the Atlanta Dream) after the Sky-Liberty game I went to in July, as she was kind enough to meet up with me.

It was a rather quick meeting, but we got to talk a little bit about our mutual interest in the nonprofit organization To Write Love on Her Arms. Considering I don’t know many people who are interested in TWLOHA outside of the people who were in my college’s UChapter, it was great to talk about it, and it was cooler that it was with a professional basketball player.

Corey Cott, Laura Osnes, and some of the Bandstand cast:

The second time I went to see Bandstand, I decided to stage door:wait outside the theater’s stage door to meet some of the cast. It was my first time doing so, so I wasn’t sure what to expect, but it went fairly well.

I really stage-doored so I could meet Corey Cott, the male lead in Bandstand, and get a picture with him, because I had become such a huge fan of his. But I was very much so up for meeting others in the case, too, because that cast was filled with ridiculously talented people. I hardly talked to anyone who came out, though, because I wasn’t sure what to say, as it was my first time stage-dooring. I made sure to thank everyone for signing my Playbill and to let everyone know that they did a good job, but that’s about all my socially awkward, introverted self was prepared for. (Hopefully next time I can muster up more of a conversation.)

I did, however, have a very brief conversation with Geoff Packard, who played Wayne Wright. He’s a twin, and there were two girls next to me at the stage door who are twins. Geoff pointed that out, so I proceeded to tell him that I’m also a twin but didn’t have my twin with me there. He joked with me that’s what everyone (without a twin) says, but I let him know I was in New York for an internship, so my sister was not with me. It was a fun little moment.

I only got photos with Corey and Laura Osnes, the female lead, though, because I thought that’s all I would really want. Now that the moment has passed, I wish I would’ve gotten pictures with at least all of the main cast members that came out to the stage door, but I did get the one photo I came there wanting, so I’m still grateful.


With all of the accomplishments and adventures 2017 presented me, 2018 has a lot to live up to. And so do all the years afterward, but I look forward to creating memories and pursuing opportunities that make my life all the more eventful.

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” ― Søren Kierkegaard

The Journey of a Yerd

A yearbook nerd’s reflection on doing yearbook for six years

When I was a freshman in high school, I remember filling out a form during my English class that expressed my interest in wanting to join yearbook. The form was supposed to help me determine what classes I wanted to take the next school year. At my school, yearbook doubled as an extracurricular activity and a class titled “Publications,” so it was listed as an elective on the form. I don’t remember why exactly, but I had to choose an elective from the list, so I chose Publications. I didn’t actually want to take Publications that next year, though. Signing up for yearbook would take away my lone free spot in my schedule, and I wanted to fill it with Spanish II to complete my foreign language requirement.

During my appointment with the guidance counselor when we’d determine my sophomore year schedule, she asked me about taking Publications. I told her I actually wanted to take Spanish II instead. But there was a reason I picked Publications on that form. I didn’t just pick it to pick it because I had to choose something. I picked it because I really was intrigued by the idea of helping create a yearbook and the creativity that’s required of it. And, after all, I was one of those people who had always loved getting and flipping through yearbooks.

When it came time to choose my classes for my junior year of high school, I undoubtedly knew that I wanted to stop taking Spanish and join yearbook instead. My foreign language requirement would already be fulfilled, and the extra honors credit that came along with Spanish III wasn’t anywhere near as enticing as was the chance to take a fun class for once and use my creativity in Publications. My best friend Phoebe would be in the class and so would my friend Josh. I was in no position to pass on this opportunity.

And I’m glad I did, because joining yearbook was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Read more “The Journey of a Yerd”

Illinois Happened for a Reason

A very recent alumna’s reflection on the opportunities of four years at Illinois

When I was applying for colleges a little over four years ago, I was fortunate enough to already know what I wanted to do with my life and where I wanted to go to help make that a reality: the University of Kansas.

Contrary to popular belief—or rather what my favorite teacher, Mr. Clark, thought—I didn’t simply want to go to Kansas for college just because it’s Kirk Hinrich’s alma mater. That just happened to be a wonderful perk. As an aspiring sports writer, KU’s prestigious journalism program was attractive. As a basketball fanatic, I wanted to go to a basketball school, and KU is pretty much the definition of that considering the men’s basketball team’s great history and success.

Kansas seemed like the perfect place for me to be, and I was convinced it was despite never having even gone on a visit there. When I told my friends and classmates my reasoning behind it, they understood and saw why I’d fit there.

So I applied to the school as a journalism major, received my acceptance, and was even offered a scholarship. I’d hear from with representatives from the school who would mention also loving Kirk Hinrich (Thanks to social media it was no secret Kirk was my favorite). I was happy about the prospect of my future and was hopeful that I’d get my perfect college experience. Read more “Illinois Happened for a Reason”

One Book, One Campus, One Group of People Brought Together By One Person


Meeting Jamie Tworkowski with the TWLOHA UIUC UChapter

On June 30 at 1:02 p.m., my twin sister, Amanda, received a text from our best friend Carly:

“If you’re free right now, please call me! I have (some) exciting news!”

We text, tweet, and Snapchat one another all the time, but we never call one another, making it a bit of an odd request. So Amanda and I figured it had to be really exciting news for Carly to request a phone call because just reading the news through a text would not live up to its importance.

Two minutes later, we called Carly from Amanda’s phone. And sure enough, Carly had exciting news.

“Jamie’s coming to campus!”

No way.

Carly called to let us know that Jamie Tworkowski, founder of the non-profit organization To Write Love on Her Arms and New York Times bestselling author, would be coming to our school, the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, this school year. His book If You Feel Too Much was selected for the One Book One Campus event, so he would be coming to U of I to do a lecture and book signing. The expanded edition of If You Feel Too Much would also be out by the time he came, too.

We could not be more thrilled, because we all love Jamie.
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(S)Portlandia Adventures


This semester, I decided to take an overload semester just for a chance of going to Portland. As difficult as all of the school was at times, I’m glad I did it.

I enrolled in a second eight-week Media course called “SportsMedia Industry Immersion” and the class was centered around a week-long trip to Portland scheduled for after finals, from May 15-21.

What really sold me on the trip was the potential visit to Nike World Headquarters.

I first learned about the class/trip to Portland over winter break, so sometime in late December or early January, and the description mentioned how Nike would likely be one of the places visited. I absolutely love Nike, so that alone was enough for me to want to go on the trip.

Once Nike was confirmed, seeing their campus was the thing I was most looking forward to. Interestingly enough, going to Nike wasn’t necessarily the best part about the trip to Portland. But really, that’s just because of how great of a time I had in Portland as a whole. Read more “(S)Portlandia Adventures”

A Decade of TWLOHA


Wednesday, March 30 marks the 10th anniversary of To Write Love on Her Arms. While I haven’t been completely invested in TWLOHA since its start, I have known about the organization for most of its 10 years of existence. In recent years, I’ve become very, very supportive of TWLOHA and its message, contributing to the excitement I felt when I first heard about #TWLOHA10.

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My wallet, however, wasn’t as excited to learn about the #TWLOHA10 collection. I restrained myself from buying more than one item from the collection, though, and settled for the “City Shirt” because I don’t have a shirt like it already.

When I received my shirt in the mail, I found four #TWLOHA10 response cards accompanying my shirt. (Print out the cards, and fill them out!) The cards were meant to be filled out to helped celebrate TWLOHA’s 10th birthday. As I thought about what to include on the card, I realized I wanted to write several sentences, an entire paragraph, maybe even a few. I didn’t want to do that, and I didn’t want to post four different photos of each card on Instagram with a short story. I didn’t want to just have black words on the card either.

I also wanted to be creative, so that’s what I did. Or at least, that’s what I tried to do. Read more “A Decade of TWLOHA”

Favorite Books of 2015

Books 2015

For someone who wants to be a writer, I honestly don’t read too many books. Most of the books I read throughout the year are books assigned for school, and I don’t get too much time to read books for pleasure other than summertime. And, when I do read for pleasure, it typically takes me a very long time to complete a book because I tend to read slow. Despite all of that, I read a decent amount of books in 2015—both for school and for pleasure. Read more “Favorite Books of 2015”

New Year’s Eve 2015: Holding on to Hope

NYE 2015

As I’m writing this, there are less than four hours until the New Year. I’m not one to make New Year’s resolutions, and I’m not really one to celebrate New Year’s. I just don’t find it exciting like some people do and am not into the whole party scene associated with it. I’m not hating on it all at, but it just isn’t me.

I do, however, like to reflect on the past year just like most everyone else when it comes to the New Year.

It’s difficult for me to reflect on 2015 as a whole, though, because it just seems like so much. It seems like such a long time—which it can be depending on how it’s looked at.

Somehow it seems like the year just dragged on, yet, at the same time, it seems like 2015 went by relatively quickly. But then I consider that I can hardly reflect on the spring semester let alone 2015 in its entirety. Read more “New Year’s Eve 2015: Holding on to Hope”

Two Decades

Two Decades

Four weeks ago, I turned 20 years old. I didn’t think much of it then, and I don’t think much of it now.

I don’t find birthdays too exciting anymore. When you’re little, birthdays are a big deal because you get presents, cake and all of this attention. Everything is about you, and it’s great. Your birthday is a day that celebrates you; it celebrates your existence. Your birthday is a day that celebrates how far you’ve come so far in life and how far you can still go.

Somewhere along the way in my 20 years of existence, I lost the excitement for that. That’s not to say I don’t like birthdays anymore, but, to quote Jamie Tworkowski in his oh-so-wonderful book If You Feel Too Much, “i like birthdays. i like them more for other people, but I’m glad we celebrate them.” Read more “Two Decades”

World Suicide Prevention Day 2015: “You will see me tomorrow”


This post was partially inspired by Anis Mojgani’s “You’ll see me tomorrow” post.

Today is World Suicide Prevention Day, and it coincides with National Suicide Prevention Week. Both events have become more meaningful to me than ever before, but it’s not because it’s something I’ve personally dealt with.

I’ve never had suicidal tendencies and/or attempts, and I’ve never lost a loved one to suicide. But I know people who have. I know it starts with pain, and pain is something I’m very familiar with. It’s something we’re all familiar with, and I know that, if the pain becomes bad enough, it can turn into suicide.

I don’t want that. Not for me, and certainly not for anyone in this world.
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